Today I am celebrating my thirteenth wedding anniversary. And for the first time, I won’t be spending the day with the bloke in the photo. (That would be my husband.) I am in Dubai for the International Diabetes Federation’s world Diabetes Congress. He is not.
This photo is of us running out of the church after we’d said our ‘I dos’. Throughout the brief ceremony, various friends performed gorgeous music including ‘One Hand, One Heart’ and ‘I Have a Love’ from Westside Story and the stunning ‘The Wedding‘ by Abdullah Ibrahim – a song that can take me back to each and every step I took as, on my father’s arm, I walked down the aisle to Aaron.
As this photo was taken, the remnants of a tango written by Aaron was being played. Yep – we tangoed down the aisle before sprinting out into the late afternoon.
It was a blissfully happy day and I love the looks on our faces in this photo. All I see is joy.
Not even ten months prior to our wedding day, I was told I had type 1 diabetes. It rocked my very being and made me change a few key things in my life. For a while it made me wonder if anything that I had been, anything that I had known would ever be the same. And I wondered if Aaron would still want to marry me now that I was so broken; would he still want to come along for the ride that was our life together?
In this photo, it looks like we’re ready to take on anything. And thirteen years later, that’s exactly how we’ve approached things. The ride may have been occasionally difficult (and most of those tough times are because of diabetes) but it’s been a fun ride, too. And we picked up a gorgeous little girl along the way to keep us company and share the love!








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December 5, 2011 at 7:26 am
mairi-anne macartney
Lovely blog..Garry and I celebrated 21 yrs on 3/11. We certainly have been there for each other. richer/poorer and sickness/health. We are not the same people we fell in love with, we have changed, grown, matured BUT we both agree we would still take this journey togther even after 21 yrs. I love Garry with my whole being….. I respect him and adore him as a father to the girls. They recently told him he was a great dad… I think thats awesome.Best wishes to you, Aaron and Poppy it certainly isnt an easy road but if it was too easy how would you know when to truly enjoy those great times. love Mairi-anne
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December 5, 2011 at 10:01 am
Jeann
Renza, that gorgeous wedding photo with you smiling is just so you! You have a lovely smile
Congrats on the 13 years and your lovely daughter. We have just celebrated our 46th anniversary and I wouldn’t swap my husband, our kids or our life for ‘all the tea in China’ (as the saying goes).
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